Saturday, October 11, 2008

Bag Lady Part II

There are those we judge in society, for so many things, and perhaps the one's we judge most are the one's we are afraid of becoming - or the one's we are jealous of.

I have been, more than once in my life, without a home. Not for many years, thankfully.

Having little family to speak of, my life was often one or two mishaps away from falling between the cracks. There was, I thought, no safety net for me. I never took money, save scholarships, from public institutions. And I have been employed, in one manner or another since I was 8 years old.

Still, with all that bootstrapping hard work, I have been without a home as a child and as an adult. Never did I beg. Never did I steal. And never was I on the street for long before some kindness was disposed upon me and I was given shelter until I could get my feet under me again. And, because of my vantage point on the world, I came away with some amazing stories.

I know, and have seen that people are, overwhelmingly, unerringly kind, almost all of the time.

And when they are not, I generally trust that they have been hurt in some indelible way.

The other day a co-worker of mine asked me to quick, think of a prank she could pull on a third co-worker. It was not mean spirited, but I had to tell her that my imagination just didn't run in that direction.

I don't do funny, at least I try not to do it at other people's expense.

But I do hope.

I do hope in spades.

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